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Divorce lawyer reveals the 8 main reasons couples break up, and ways to avoid it
2024-12-06 18:55:13 / EKONOMI&SOCIALE
Renowned New York divorce attorney James Sexton recently shared some of the top reasons couples split up in his office, and suggests ways to avoid 'heartbreak' for the end of the year and the coming year.
Speaking to the New York Post, Sexton, who often posts his advice on Instagram, says 56 percent of marriages end in acrimonious divorce, while 20 percent of couples try to stay together for the sake of the children, or not. the division of wealth.
These are Sexton's eight reasons that lead couples to divorce and tips to avoid them.
Sexton says: “People start to feel comfortable and comfort turns into laziness and complacency. Don't stop doing the things that please your partner, and make him/her feel special."
"Don't neglect the little things, like making a coffee or cooking dinner."
The expert says that there should be a time for intimacy and sex in a relationship. "The road to divorce is fast approaching if you don't have the designated physical time together in the bedroom," he adds.
"Sex is what distinguishes a 'romantic' relationship from other types of relationships, and couples who avoid this begin to feel like 'roommates'".
Sexton advises that parents focus on both the children and the relationship between them.
He adds that the 'social media trap' should be avoided as those who try to look perfect online do so at the expense of their real-life connection.
When you're on your phone all day, you can get lost in the cycle of virtuality.
Sexton says: "You should live your relationship, not perform it online."
Communication is one of the keys to a strong relationship as Sexton says that without it, the little things can often turn into a 'monster avalanche.'
He adds that communication is the 'antidote' to problems before they take root, and that adultery is a symptom of deeper problems.
The preservation of individual identity is another reason that prevents the disruption of harmony. "If you lose yourself in a relationship, you lose your individuality and what made you attractive in the first place."
For this, according to the expert, people should protect their friends and habits, hobbies and other passions, so that they do not turn into an "empty cup from which nothing is poured."
The lawyer adds that in some cases a prenuptial agreement on property can help.
"People think that such agreements are not romantic, but it can be the opposite, it's like saying 'I trust you so much that I can talk about difficult things before they turn into a problem,'" they conclude. advice of the US attorney.
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