The story of my friendship with Parashqevi Simaku! Rita Ndoci speaks!

2024-12-17 21:47:08 / AKTUALITET ALFA PRESS

The story of my friendship with Parashqevi Simaku! Rita Ndoci speaks!
Rita Ndoci came tonight to Dritare TV on the Dekalog show by Roland Qafoku, to talk about Parashqevi Simaku. Rita Ndoci has known the great Albanian artist since she was a child, at the Festival of Pioneers in Shkodër.

She shared with the public snippets of Parashqevia's life, from children's festivals where they both participated, to city-by-city performances, to big festivals, where Parashqevia became a great artist, capturing the hearts of all Albanians. Follow below Rita Ndoci's confession about her friend, Parashqevi Simaku!

"I met Parashqevi for the first time at the Festival of Pioneers in Shkodër. As far as I know, no one knows Parashqevi. I know him 360 degrees. We were together everywhere, at festivals, everywhere, we never went out without each other.

For the last time I communicated with Parashqevi in ​​2003. At that time I was in New York, she waited for me to meet, but I did not make it. I was held hostage for a long time.

When I saw her recently, I thought of her loneliness, but also her pride. But we do not know the complete history of Parashqevi.
I don't know how I would behave if I were in the same situation. It is not easy for a mother to separate from her child. I don't know how they managed to take the child away, because there are strict criteria. But in the rule of law mothers always have priority. But at the time of Enver Hoxha, two people were needed to put you in prison, while abroad, one person is enough to destroy your life. For Parashqevi it ​​is the second one.

The story of my friendship with Parashqevi Simaku! Rita Ndoci speaks!
Parashqevi's son is now an adult. He must look for his mother. Maybe they told him that his mother died. Paraxjevia self-denied, self-destructed for her child. I don't know what information that child has about his mother Parashqevi, who was destroyed to smell the boy. I am her mother myself, I understand her drama very well.
Paraskhevia has decided to wait for her son at that train station, maybe until he dies. But what is happening, I suffer with him. Her privacy was completely violated. Why did she sing there secretly? There may have been people who noticed it and passed by. That way of doing honor is more humiliating for me. For me, Parashkevia is killed twice. Albanian society seemed to me like the 1974 pamphlet that we read against artists and educated figures.

If I have the opportunity now, I would make a phone call between colleagues with Parashqevi. I would say to him: "Parashqevi, you have achieved all your goals! But maybe it has come that for the things you don't achieve, you have to overcome the situation, strengthen yourself, spiritually, psychologically to cope with that failure as well. This is human strength. It doesn't matter how we fall, it matters how we get up. You have to get up and make it for yourself, but also for the boy." With this message, Parashqevi's friend, Rita Ndoci./KC/dritare.net, ends the conversation

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