"My husband cheated on me with my best friend"/ The woman 'shocks' with the confession: After 21 years of marriage..
A woman has confessed how she caught her husband cheating on her with her best friend.
Dear Psychologist: I had confided in my best friend that my sex life had taken a hit and that my husband might be depressed, when it turned out that they had slept together.
Although what I discovered broke my heart, I am honestly trying to forgive my other half.
Most of my family and other friends think I'm a jerk, especially since this is his third relationship, but other than the cheating he's always treated me well.
I am 48 years old and my husband is 49.
We have been married for 21 years and have two beautiful children.
I discovered their connection when I took him to lunch as a surprise.
Walking into the hardware store he owns, I was in for a surprise as I startled them into kissing in the back of the store.
He has since admitted that they have been dating for five months.
He immediately broke up with her and swore to me that he loved me.
It's bad enough living with the hurt, but my main issue is that he can't stand it when I dare to question his behavior.
If I do, he freezes me up - withdrawing sex and all communication.
He's been acting so different for the past two months, seeing things only from his perspective.
It's "me, me, me" every day.
I tried to talk him out of it but he just got up and fell asleep on the couch.
It's been weeks and he still sleeps there.
He barely talks to me and has no love. He told me every day that he loved me. Everything has stopped.
I feel like I'm being punished for telling him how I feel.
The psychologist's answer: He is immature and seems unable to communicate.
Instead of sharing what he's upset about, he's retaliating by keeping it private.
Its purpose is to punish you, or to make you feel unloved or unattractive.
This is emotional abuse. It is vital that you remain calm and ignore the behavior.
Ask him to talk to you when he's upset instead of shutting you out.
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